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posted August 14, 2010 02:45AM
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ayaw madapuan ng langaw dahil mahal;

ayaw pagalitan para hindi magtampo;

sunod ang bawat maibigan tanda ng labis na pagmamahal??

hindi pinapalo???

ano po ang ginagawa nyo para maipadama ang inyong pagmamahal sa inyong mga anak?

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posted August 14, 2010 02:48AM
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Ako pinapalo ko ang anak ko hehe.. mga isang beses lang naman
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posted August 14, 2010 02:52AM
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1. Hindi kailangan na dapat laging paluin ang bata kung ito'y nakakagawa ng mali. Dahil ang bata ay masyadong sensitibo pa. Sumasama ang loob kapag pinapalo. at kapag na-over come na nya ang sakit ng palo, lalong lalakas ang loob ng bata para gawin uli ang mali.

2. Pagsabihan mo muna kung bakit masama yan at hindi na dapat ulitin. Sa ganung paraan, tatak sa isipan nya yan na sya ay pinalaki ng kanyang magulang sa pangaral.

  

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posted August 14, 2010 03:06AM
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ibinibigay ko ang lahat ng gusto nya...pero syempre may palo parin pagmay mali sya tapos kinakausap ko at ipinapaliwanag kung bakit ko sya pinalo para hindi na sya umulit ulit.
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posted August 15, 2010 01:26PM
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pag nagkamali ipaaalam mo na mali iyon at may sadyang parusang palo; tanungin mo kung ilang palo ang ibibigay mo pag inulit pa.
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posted August 15, 2010 01:29PM
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Basta tamang gabay lang sa bata at tamang pagdisiplina, yun ang tunay na pagmamahal.

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posted August 15, 2010 07:35PM
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sampung taon na ang anak ko...

 

ni minsan hindi ko pa napapalo...

 

kinakausap ko lang siya ng masinsinan...

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posted August 20, 2010 02:01AM
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pag alam na ng bata na mali ang gagawin nya dahil nasabihan mo na ay tatatak yun sa isip niya at hindi gagawin. alam nya kasi may parusa.
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posted August 20, 2010 02:06AM
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hindi ako namamalo
masakit kasi yun ehh
pinag sasabihan ko
na lang na mali yun,
kaya nasisigawan ko
ang mga pamangkin ko..
kasi ayoko lumayo loob nila sa akin..
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posted August 20, 2010 02:18AM
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ako hindi ko papaluin ang magiging anak ko natural lang naman yon.
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posted August 20, 2010 02:22AM
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oo para maging tuwid lang siyang lumaki its part of growing up
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posted August 20, 2010 02:25AM
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tinuturuan ng leksyon...
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posted August 20, 2010 02:39AM
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hindi ko po papaluin ang magiging anak ko po..
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posted August 20, 2010 02:43AM
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hindi lang naman pamamalo ang paraan para disiplinahin ang anak
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posted August 20, 2010 02:52AM
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..hindi po tama na paluin natin ang mga anak natin..

..i was always beaten by my father and tumatak sa akin ang anger and pain...
..i just don't know why pero...the thing siguro na kahit napatawad ko na ang father ko is my mind is still arguing na mali ang ginawa niya kasi bata pa ako nun..i wasn't able to reason out things pa kaya i'm always doing things wrong..wrong things...bad things...

..if you want to grow old with the peace of mind na merong mag aalaga sayo pagtanda mo...you must not beat a child because you're being carried away by your anger... pagsabihan mo lang..and when you are out of patience and napalo mo... ipaliwanag mo na ginawa mo yun because he/she did something wrong..hindi yung palo ng palo but not explaining what he/she did is wrong..

..and when you try to expain wag ka magagalit pag inulit..instead encourage him to do the right thing..the right way..

 

..ang pagpalo is part of growing?..ridiculous people!!..it's not part of growing..it's not part of growing as a beautiful person but someone..someone who lacks self-esteem and self respect...

 

..i'm sure you parents don't want to see your children beating your grandchildren..do you?..i hope not..

 

 

..and to all..i'm way over it..i'm not bitter anymore..i love my parents..and i don't wan't to carry that burden[anger] in my heart hangang pagtanda ko..


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posted August 20, 2010 03:04AM
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dapat pinapaliwanagan ang bata pag nagkakamali kasi pag pinalo natin sila galit at poot ang nakatanim sa isip nila hanggang sa paglaki.palagi sanang tatandaan natin ang ano mang maling ginagawa natin baka makopya ng bata paglaki nya.

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posted August 20, 2010 03:09AM
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CatsnOwls posted on August 20, 2010 02:52AM

..hindi po tama na paluin natin ang mga anak natin..

..i was always beaten by my father and tumatak sa akin ang anger and pain...
..i just don't know why pero...the thing siguro na kahit napatawad ko na ang father ko is my mind is still arguing na mali ang ginawa niya kasi bata pa ako nun..i wasn't able to reason out things pa kaya i'm always doing things wrong..wrong things...bad things...

..if you want to grow old with the peace of mind na merong mag aalaga sayo pagtanda mo...you must not beat a child because you're being carried away by your anger... pagsabihan mo lang..and when you are out of patience and napalo mo... ipaliwanag mo na ginawa mo yun because he/she did something wrong..hindi yung palo ng palo but not explaining what he/she did is wrong..

..and when you try to expain wag ka magagalit pag inulit..instead encourage him to do the right thing..the right way..

 

..ang pagpalo is part of growing?..ridiculous people!!..it's not part of growing..it's not part of growing as a beautiful person but someone..someone who lacks self-esteem and self respect...

 

..i'm sure you parents don't want to see your children beating your grandchildren..do you?..i hope not..

 

 

..and to all..i'm way over it..i'm not bitter anymore..i love my parents..and i don't wan't to carry that burden[anger] in my heart hangang pagtanda ko..


i totally agree with this.

kahit mahal ko ang nanay at tatay ko, i always have that longing na lumaki na agad para maipagtanggol ko ang sarili ko or makaalis na ako ng bahay namin as soon as possible.

kaya nga pinangako ko sa sarili ko na kapag magkaanak ako, i will never let my daughter experience such feelings towards me.

 

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posted August 20, 2010 03:23AM
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mahal mo ba ang iyong anak kaya mo pinapalo??
 oo..sign pa rin yan na dinidisiplina mo sya at gusto mo ng maging matuwid...depende na lang gaano ka kalakas pumalo, dun na mag-iiba.

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posted August 20, 2010 03:26AM
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masterschoice posted on August 20, 2010 03:23AM

mahal mo ba ang iyong anak kaya mo pinapalo??
 oo..sign pa rin yan na dinidisiplina mo sya at gusto mo ng maging matuwid...depende na lang gaano ka kalakas pumalo, dun na mag-iiba.


may ibang method of discipline naman. bakit kelangan pa nang paluan?

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posted August 20, 2010 03:39AM
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hindi po magandang gawin yun sa bata pero minsan hindi maiwasan dahil meron talagang bata na hindi nakikinig kahit ilang ulit mo ng sabihin na wag gawin..gagawin at gagawin pa ren, titigil lang sila kapag pinalo na sila..may kakilala kasi kong ganito yung mga anak nya, pero di mo ren masisi yun bata kasi sinanay ren na sunod lagi ang gusto at walang takot at respeto sa tatay..kaya ganun sila..

pero sa little boy ko, di namin sya pinapalo, pinag sasabihan lang namin and make him feel na mali talaga yun at hindi dapat gawin..alam nya na galit kami, pero alam ren nya na love namin sya. after namin sya kausapin, sya pa mismo ang mag kiss samin..hope di dumating sa point na kailangan pa namin sya saktan/paluin para lang sumunod sya..nasa parents kung pano ma disiplina anak nila, kanya kanyang ways, just be sure na hindi mawawala pag mamahal nila and respect syo.
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posted August 20, 2010 09:50PM
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clickandearn6 posted on August 20, 2010 03:39AM
hindi po magandang gawin yun sa bata pero minsan hindi maiwasan dahil meron talagang bata na hindi nakikinig kahit ilang ulit mo ng sabihin na wag gawin..gagawin at gagawin pa ren, titigil lang sila kapag pinalo na sila..may kakilala kasi kong ganito yung mga anak nya, pero di mo ren masisi yun bata kasi sinanay ren na sunod lagi ang gusto at walang takot at respeto sa tatay..kaya ganun sila..

pero sa little boy ko, di namin sya pinapalo, pinag sasabihan lang namin and make him feel na mali talaga yun at hindi dapat gawin..alam nya na galit kami, pero alam ren nya na love namin sya. after namin sya kausapin, sya pa mismo ang mag kiss samin..hope di dumating sa point na kailangan pa namin sya saktan/paluin para lang sumunod sya..nasa parents kung pano ma disiplina anak nila, kanya kanyang ways, just be sure na hindi mawawala pag mamahal nila and respect syo.


maganda naman po pala ang karanasan nyo;

ako po namamalo pero palo ng pagmamahal;

ako po ang unang nasasaktan sa pagpalo ko sa aking anak;

nasa banal na kasulatan ang tamang pagpapalaki sa ating mga anak.

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