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posted December 17, 2010 08:32AM
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My 3 kaming anak ni misis, 12, 6, & 2 years old. Lately naconfirm ko na hindi pala ako ama ng aming 2 year old daughter [through DNA testing]. Hindi alam ni misis na alam ko na, and it breaks me everyday. napamahal na sa akin ang anak-anakan ko. ayokong magsuffer ang mga anak ko in case na iiwan ko sila. but everyday i'm depressed thinking na ginago nya ko. i dont deserve it. i'm no saint either. on the side, i fool around, but nothing serious. i've been a good father, but not a good husband. but its not my responsibility to take care of my wife's "mistake". what must i do? please help me end this misery.


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posted December 17, 2010 08:51AM
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devilish23o1 posted on December 17, 2010 09:32AM

My 3 kaming anak ni misis, 12, 6, & 2 years old. Lately naconfirm ko na hindi pala ako ama ng aming 2 year old daughter [through DNA testing]. Hindi alam ni misis na alam ko na, and it breaks me everyday. napamahal na sa akin ang anak-anakan ko. ayokong magsuffer ang mga anak ko in case na iiwan ko sila. but everyday i'm depressed thinking na ginago nya ko. i dont deserve it. i'm no saint either. on the side, i fool around, but nothing serious. i've been a good father, but not a good husband. but its not my responsibility to take care of my wife's "mistake". what must i do? please help me end this misery.


^ try to talk to her regarding this matter.

'wag mong solohin ang problema, kahit hindi sa'yo 'yang mga anak niya -napamahal na sila sa'yo at mahal ka rin nila sir.

emoticon take care.

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posted December 17, 2010 09:05AM
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Dapat mag-usap na kayo ng mrs. mo. Huwag mo idamay ang anak ng mrs. mo, hindi kasalanan ng bata yun. Ikaw din ang nagsabi na napamahal na sa iyo ang bata. Huwag mo na dagdagan ang problema ng pamilya niyo kung aalis at iiwan mo sila.
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posted December 17, 2010 09:11AM
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kung mahal mo pamilya mo at mga anak mo, pagaralan mo nalang magpatawad...pero magusap muna kayo.. maganda umamin din sya ng kasalanan at humingi ng tawad sayo... Christmas naman..
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posted December 17, 2010 02:11PM
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devilish23o1 posted on December 17, 2010 09:32AM

My 3 kaming anak ni misis, 12, 6, & 2 years old. Lately naconfirm ko na hindi pala ako ama ng aming 2 year old daughter [through DNA testing]. Hindi alam ni misis na alam ko na, and it breaks me everyday. napamahal na sa akin ang anak-anakan ko. ayokong magsuffer ang mga anak ko in case na iiwan ko sila. but everyday i'm depressed thinking na ginago nya ko. i dont deserve it. i'm no saint either. on the side, i fool around, but nothing serious. i've been a good father, but not a good husband. but its not my responsibility to take care of my wife's "mistake". what must i do? please help me end this misery.


gaya nga ng sabi mo ud been a good father but "not a good husband". kung may nagawa mang kasalanan ang misis mo cguro dahil na rin sa pagiging not good husband mo sa kanya. tanungin mo muna sya kung bakit nya ginawa iyon di naman nya gagawin iyon kung walang rason. malay mo she just give u ur own dose of medicine kz nga sabi mo ur fooling around too. better ask ur wife y she did it.

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posted December 17, 2010 02:14PM
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this is very sad..
But Im curious kung pano ka nagkahinala na hindi mo nga anak yung bunso at talagang pina-DNA test mo pa?
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posted December 17, 2010 02:16PM
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pinakamabuti manalangin ka na tulungan ka sa dinadala mo. yan ang una mong gawin...
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posted December 17, 2010 02:16PM
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I am equally curious as well...what prompted you to do the DNA?
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posted December 17, 2010 02:18PM
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grabe naman.kahit naman may pagkukulang ka hindi sapat yun para ang misis mo mangaliwa..

ako di ko alam malamang iwanan ko na kagad yan

for me life is too short.

tutal kasalan niya yan.

dun siya magpasustento kung saan siya nagpapagalaw habang ikaw nagpapakahirap

mabigay mo lang ang luho at pangangailangan nila.

yun lang masasabi,yan eh kung sa akin mangyayari yan/

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posted December 17, 2010 02:19PM
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Paaminim mo muna ang asawa mo at saka mo timbangin ang mga pangyayari.
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posted December 17, 2010 02:23PM
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ouch. if I were on your shoes, I would leave the wife but continue to support the 2 kids (your kids). Why suffer with that pain alone? talk to your wife po.
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posted December 17, 2010 02:26PM
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devilish23o1 posted on December 17, 2010 09:32AM

My 3 kaming anak ni misis, 12, 6, & 2 years old. Lately naconfirm ko na hindi pala ako ama ng aming 2 year old daughter [through DNA testing]. Hindi alam ni misis na alam ko na, and it breaks me everyday. napamahal na sa akin ang anak-anakan ko. ayokong magsuffer ang mga anak ko in case na iiwan ko sila. but everyday i'm depressed thinking na ginago nya ko. i dont deserve it. i'm no saint either. on the side, i fool around, but nothing serious. i've been a good father, but not a good husband. but its not my responsibility to take care of my wife's "mistake". what must i do? please help me end this misery.


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baka yan po ang reason kaya nag luko si misis.

 

isipin nyo po maige. kung bakit nagawa ni misis yun.

 

nangaliwa din po ba kayo? nambabae? nananakit ng asawa? ano po meaning ng not a good husband?

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posted December 17, 2010 02:31PM
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ang sakit talaga nyan kung sakali kung ako malamang hindi na ako nakatiis at napalayas ko na ang asawa ko yung bata wala namang kasalanan kaya intindihin mo sya.
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posted December 17, 2010 02:33PM
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bat kaya ganun, pa gang misis ang nangaliwa masakit sa lalaki.

per ang lalaki ang marami anak sa labas. tuwang tuwa pa.

hay buhay nga naman.
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posted December 17, 2010 02:39PM
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khengonzales posted on December 17, 2010 03:33PM
bat kaya ganun, pa gang misis ang nangaliwa masakit sa lalaki.

per ang lalaki ang marami anak sa labas. tuwang tuwa pa.

hay buhay nga naman.

honga........
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posted December 17, 2010 02:56PM
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sbmtravel posted on December 17, 2010 03:18PM

grabe naman.kahit naman may pagkukulang ka hindi sapat yun para ang misis mo mangaliwa..

ako di ko alam malamang iwanan ko na kagad yan

for me life is too short.

tutal kasalan niya yan.

dun siya magpasustento kung saan siya nagpapagalaw habang ikaw nagpapakahirap

mabigay mo lang ang luho at pangangailangan nila.

yun lang masasabi,yan eh kung sa akin mangyayari yan/


kapag ang lalake ba ang nangaliwa at nagkaanak sa ibang girl ok lang??? nasasaktan din ang babae at un ang nagiging dahilan kaya siya malamang nagkasala..matatanggap ko ang sagot na ito kung siya mismo na mister eh walang nagawang mali in the past! pero inaamin naman niya na "he's not a good husband to his wife" and at some point he fools around with other girls din. so may reason talaga kaya nagawa ng misis niya ang bagay na un.nobody's perfect pero kung pinagsisihan ng isang tao ang kasalanan niya i guess wala namang problemang di nareresolve. better talk to your wife about this and try to forgive her dahil parehas lang kayo may kasalanan kaya you cannot put all the blame on her.


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posted December 17, 2010 03:04PM
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sbmtravel posted on December 17, 2010 03:18PM

grabe naman.kahit naman may pagkukulang ka hindi sapat yun para ang misis mo mangaliwa..

ako di ko alam malamang iwanan ko na kagad yan

for me life is too short.

tutal kasalan niya yan.

dun siya magpasustento kung saan siya nagpapagalaw habang ikaw nagpapakahirap

mabigay mo lang ang luho at pangangailangan nila.

yun lang masasabi,yan eh kung sa akin mangyayari yan/


bakit pag lalaki nangaliwa kaylangan bigyan ng second chance bakit pag girl hindi...hehe nagtatanung lang poh? kasi baka kaya nagawa ng girl yun sa hubby niya kasi nalaman niya na gumagawa ito ng kalokohan tapos di sinasadya na may nabuo hmm.,diba atleast di niya pinalaglag yun bata yun nga lang mali na ipasagot niya yun sa guy...

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posted December 17, 2010 03:12PM
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parekoy, ang sakit sakit sakit nyan parekoy....tibay din ng dibdib mo.....la ko maipayo e basta do what you think is right kasi minsan yung tama para sa akin hindi naman tama para sa iyo....yaan mo hindi lang naman ikaw nagkaganyan...marami pang iba na same sitwasyun sa iyo

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posted December 17, 2010 03:18PM
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ok lang po iyan basta hindi na nagkikita iyong lalake ng asawa mo.
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posted December 17, 2010 03:18PM
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cash4life02 posted on December 17, 2010 03:56PM
sbmtravel posted on December 17, 2010 03:18PM

grabe naman.kahit naman may pagkukulang ka hindi sapat yun para ang misis mo mangaliwa..

ako di ko alam malamang iwanan ko na kagad yan

for me life is too short.

tutal kasalan niya yan.

dun siya magpasustento kung saan siya nagpapagalaw habang ikaw nagpapakahirap

mabigay mo lang ang luho at pangangailangan nila.

yun lang masasabi,yan eh kung sa akin mangyayari yan/


kapag ang lalake ba ang nangaliwa at nagkaanak sa ibang girl ok lang??? nasasaktan din ang babae at un ang nagiging dahilan kaya siya malamang nagkasala..matatanggap ko ang sagot na ito kung siya mismo na mister eh walang nagawang mali in the past! pero inaamin naman niya na "he's not a good husband to his wife" and at some point he fools around with other girls din. so may reason talaga kaya nagawa ng misis niya ang bagay na un.nobody's perfect pero kung pinagsisihan ng isang tao ang kasalanan niya i guess wala namang problemang di nareresolve. better talk to your wife about this and try to forgive her dahil parehas lang kayo may kasalanan kaya you cannot put all the blame on her.


2nd the motion

hirap kasi sa ibang lalaki kala mo malilinis din. pag sa kanila ginawa iniputan daw.

pero pag sila gumagawa. pinag mamalaki pa sa ibang kaibigan lalaki.

hayz

sana maging fair naman.

think the other side.

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posted December 17, 2010 03:37PM
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pagusapan nyo munang dalawa,lahat naman po ng bagay ay nadadaan sa mabuting usapan
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